I am a retired widow raising two teenage grandchildren. I was born in Troy, NY in the year of 1962. I raised four children and have been raising two of my grandchildren, I have seven in total, for the past 10 years. I lost my husband, my soul mate, the love of my life in October of 2023, everything changed for me then. I love music, food, family and entertaining. We have a two year old black cat named Kinder, we love him.